tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5450893767047045032.post2901333273064150799..comments2023-08-04T20:40:44.358+08:00Comments on 電影與歌隨想誌: Mother and Child ("愛在你左右") ------ A strong bond that cannot be easily seperated physically and mentally!!! Dark side of the Moonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12722233805109312854noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5450893767047045032.post-44998549184098337022010-05-17T07:28:54.968+08:002010-05-17T07:28:54.968+08:00不過我又覺得我代表不了男觀眾看法,而且我看戲其實又不很客觀,如果妳再找一個男性觀眾問下,可能有更加意...不過我又覺得我代表不了男觀眾看法,而且我看戲其實又不很客觀,如果妳再找一個男性觀眾問下,可能有更加意想不到的反應啊!<br /><br />其實,我覺得要面對別人的家庭更為恐怖!而我之前也提過,我與家庭處於一個疏離但close的關係,看似矛盾但又是事實!妳提起孤兒,我想過的反而是希望愛的人是孤兒,我便不用面對那些我認為沒關係的人了!<br /><br />"Juno"出色是處是它把這題材拍得不落俗套,沒想到可以用呢個角度心情看!不過,妳也說得沒錯,現實中未必會發生吧!<br /><br />沒看過"secret & lies",不過我認同家庭對一生也有影響,甚至是性格的形成! <br /><br />也許正因這套是focus on mother & daughter,所以妳必定看得比我投入及感受更加深,因為妳始終有一個daughter的身分,而我只是別人的son吧!<br /><br />我記得上次令我哭得痛心的一齣戲是"The Best Of Youth"!!!Dark side of the Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12722233805109312854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5450893767047045032.post-8593371750367025012010-05-17T07:27:08.310+08:002010-05-17T07:27:08.310+08:00此留言已被作者移除。Dark side of the Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12722233805109312854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5450893767047045032.post-28619696946037102212010-05-13T22:53:57.170+08:002010-05-13T22:53:57.170+08:00看這戲真是男女大不同。如此題材,好難避免與個人经驗掛勾(不論成分多少),對號入座,女人尤其如是,男觀...看這戲真是男女大不同。如此題材,好難避免與個人经驗掛勾(不論成分多少),對號入座,女人尤其如是,男觀眾相信比較客觀,所以想聽Jack的意見。<br /><br />對,這是不完美中的完美結局,家庭關係,處處遺堪,思之必令人落淚;明珠台有一小節目叫 '6 billion others',世界各地的普通人講述他們對世道、人生的感想。今晚的一集,一位澳洲女士說家人是你不喜歡但愛的人,how true! 朋友因為喜歡,所以愛。家人可以傷你最深,與你為敵,但那種愛的負担,叫人太沉重。我曾以為做孤兒好自由,但實情一定並非如此。<br /><br />關於少女孕記,我唔 buy 'Juno' 那一套,雖然我沒有看過,世事總是老套的,未成年少女不婚生子,一定惨情,點会嘻嘻哈哈, Anette Benning 角色的遺堪,好真實。関於 adopted child 的處境,又是一個令人困惑的題目. naomi watts's role makes me associate her with another characater, a black young lady, also an adopted child, in mike leigh's 'secret and lies'. the two women are very different in character, and their choices in life. but one thing for sure is that no one could escape the influence of the family, or the lack of it.<br /><br />another thing for sure is this film has made me run out of tears! so i am glad jack can view it from a male, objective perspective, that fill in the things that i didn't see with my tearful eyes in the cinema.sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11992375584973510245noreply@blogger.com